Who are they? How to recognize your Twin Flame? Can I have a meaningful life without finding my twin flame? Let’s find answers to these questions and more.
A twin flame relationship is when two people are made perfect matches as a result of shared pain or another difficulty.
Sometimes discussed in terms of a “mirror soul” or “soul connection”, a twin flame is the other half of your soul. It is theorized that a soul can split into two after ascending to a high frequency. Thereafter, the soul lands in two different bodies.
Contrary to popular belief, a twin flame is not your soul mate. Your twin flame doesn’t even have to be someone you fall in love with (although it often is). “This kind of high-level soul-based connection isn’t about romance; it’s about spiritual growth,” says Vallejos. “You meet them and your life just completely changes. You start seeing the world differently. It pushes you to want to engage with the divine, shift consciousness, and become a better, soulful, being in this experience.”
How to Recognize Your Twin Flame
- Having the same thoughts or emotions at the same time
- Intuitively knowing what the other person is doing, feeling, or thinking about
- Having the same dreams at night
- Feeling like you can easily communicate without speaking out loud
- Understanding complex or hidden parts of each other
- Feeling like it’s safe and natural to be your authentic self around this person.
- Sharing some of the same vulnerabilities and weaknesses.
Serving a Greater Mission
When you come back to yourself in your divine form by reuniting with your twin flame, you dissolve in a wholeness where there is no separation or division. The basis of your relationship is unconditional love and acceptance. This love has transcended time and space, and with this power comes responsibility.
Finding Your Twin Flame
Not everyone has a twin flame—most people will live a happy and full life with their soul mates. But if you have a persistent yearning for connection with someone; a deep desire that is about more than physical attraction, security, or your own personal growth; or a soul fire burning to serve and save the planet in some way, you may have a twin flame out there.
The first step to finding your twin flame (which also happens to be the first step to finding soul mates) is to turn inward. You must be willing to do the deep spiritual work to learn to unconditionally love and accept yourself. As you recognize your divinity and embody the love you long to find, it radiates out into the world and draws love to you like a magnet. When you become the strong, loving, and nurturing presence you need to be to fulfill your mission, it is more likely you and your twin flame will find each other.